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Though I’ve never been a classically small person (which I’m generally OK with), I put on about 70 lbs between the ages of 16 and 18, due mostly, looking back on it, to getting on and then off the pill. Add in some depression (also partly caused by the pill) and a bad relationship, and […]

Continuing with the subject of having kids… Unless you’re absolutely wild about the idea, you probably shouldn’t. I must say I admire those who do, but you better be clear about what you’re getting into.

All five flights out of La Guardia Sunday night were cancelled due to weather. They didn’t finally give into this, of course, until about midnght, when we’d all been suffering through unannounced gate changes and assurances that flights would get out at some point, which is why we sat through 7 or 8 hours of

Off to NY for the weekend…

Alleyrat rant: Many people have come to accept the notion of homosexuality but have a much harder time with bisexuality because it suggests a type of sexual flexibility or fluidity they find threatening. It is also much harder to pin people down into sex/gender categories if they tell us they are bisexual. We have our

You know, this empty iced tea glass looks a lot like an empty beer glass, with bits of foam and everything. I can dream.

I’ve been thinking a lot about raising children. Not because I’m all that hot on having any, but because of this post over at Bitch Ph.D. and because of a comment one of my first readers made about a draft of the fantasy saga. I’ve got a female-dominated matriarchy as one of my major countries,

There’s this guy at work who keeps trying to be overly friendly with me, and talk to me while my headphones are on, and be generally polite and say hello every morning. This is usually fine if it’s just a regular “good morning,” but I’m not somebody you want to try and have a conversation

Perhaps I just need a vacation

Unless you fit yourself up with an IUD, I don’t know that you’ll really know just how sweeeeeeeet this is to contemplate. I’m not looking forward to next week. (via feministing)