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Got back the first of the reader-edits for tDW from my buddy Patrick yesterday. He pointed out some typos (oh! It’s soooo nice to be at the stage of this novel where I’m like, “Hey, yea, check for typos, because I don’t intend on trashing this whole book and starting again!”), pacing issues, one rather […]

“Divorce is not caused because 50% of marriages end in gayness.”

I was chatting with Jenn last night about Meghan’s post – some thoughts on sexuality, desire, and labels. And at some point I said something like, “Yea, people really like labels. I mean, I was white and a woman my whole life, but now I’m dating a woman and have a chronic illness. Does this

And, this. This is what I do when I’m prentending I don’t owe writing work to anybody….

(via Feminist Reprise)

I hate measuring pasta. It feels so anal-retentive. I mean, I have good reason. But still.

Well, the altered dose of insulin is working out well – no low blood sugar episodes since I cut back from 30 to 26 units in the morning. Now we’ll see how that changes with intense exercise. I do my free weights in the morning, and about an hour of walking a day, but if

As regular readers know, I’ve struggled with coming to terms with my weight for a long time. I’m always thinking I should be smaller. Even when I realized what a benefit it was to be 5’9″ and pushing 200 lbs (if you know how to hold yourself, people get out of your way), I still

Scalzi, on framing arguments against the same-sex marriage ban, instead of accepting the anti-gay-rhetoric of the right and engaging on their terms: 1. Same-sex marriage already exists in the United States. It has for two years. The definition of marriage in the US already includes members of the same sex marrying each other. 2. By

Suggested Rules for Non-Transsexuals Writing about Transsexuals, Transsexuality, Transsexualism, or Trans— (via the most awesome Mistress Krista)