It’s so sexy when a college boy tells me what I think. It gets me all hot and fired up.
I love all the research that went into this piece. I love all the women he talked to, the surveys he sent out, the data he collected, the… oh no? You mean he’s just telling us what women want?
What a sweetheart!
Imagine if the world were a perfect place. Wouldn’t it be great? If everyone learned to play fair and share everything, surely the lives of men and women alike would be better.
Imagine all the people, living for today. Imagine there’s no countries, it isn’t hard to do. Nothing to kill or die for, no relgion, too….
Oh, sorry, wrong rant.
Or would it? Can men and women truly do the same things?
Like walk, talk, and chew gum at the same time? Truly, this is a skill both men and women cannot cultivate, like breathing. Women need men’s assistance for basic bodily functions like breathing, carrying things, walking, raising children… OK, well, not that last bit! Women are biologically programmed to take care of children. That’s why they don’t drown them, and why all men are bad fathers.
Although possible, it seems impractical for women to be a part of a revolution to do the same things as men, yet sustain a position of independence. Any dictionary will define feminism as a movement that advocates for the equal rights of women. But it’s more than that. Feminism encompasses connotations and often misrepresents the voice of every woman.
Every single woman. All those women’s voices he’s representing right now! I’m sure he’ll quote their voices later, and bring out all that copious research he’s done, interviewing his fellow female classmates and really listening to those voices.
What, you mean he doesn’t quote any women? Well, that’s not important. He’s a guy, he can speak for them about as readily as I can speak the minds of Quebec Separatists. Though you know, if men and women are truly from different planets, as he claims, I’m not really sure how he, as a man, would be able to speak for them. It presents a neat leap in logic! Go-go Penn junior!
If feminism prevailed, the world would be drastically different and women wouldn’t like the final result.
He has talked to thousands of women who agree. Thousands, I tell you!
He’s not a woman, but he plays one on TV. And he has lots of female friends. Really.
The day men and women have the same level of power is the also the day when chivalry dies.
What is this word, chivalry? Wasn’t that when women only had to pay for things with the production of heirs?
Many women enjoy visiting bars and having men buy them drinks in exchange for a casual conversation.
Many women also enjoy making enough money that they can buy the house a round and go drag racing afterward.
It seems that after all the work women put into getting ready for a night out, they won’t compromise their ability to get free alcohol for the sake of self-independence.
Cost of little black dress: $113
Cost of makeup: $30
Cost of hair crap: $30
Cost of shampoo: $60 (salon)
Cost of good haircut: $60
Cost of shoes: $40 (on sale at Nordstrom rack)
Cost of hose: $20
Cost of accessories: $50 (necklance, earrings)
Cost of manicure: $30
Cost of self-tanner: $20
Cost of transportation to bar (taxi) $20
Cost of having a random guy in a bar buy you a $3 beer:
I fully intend to never compromise my self-independence (what the fuck is that supposed to mean? An independence from the self? Does he mean “independence”? What sort of college students is Penn turing out?) for free liquor. The whole point of independence is that you can buy your own liquor.
Other women appreciate a man paying for dinner or movie tickets. But in a world where men and women see each other as equals, a man might not open his wallet and show a level of gallantry toward an intriguing woman.
Sweet fuck, I’m going to have nightmares about living in a world where men don’t pay for dates. I wonder how lesbians negotiate this minefield. Could you imagine a world where men and women look at each other as equals, and men don’t pay the women’s portion? I mean, you’d have to pay your own. Oh, the sweet, sweet, price of equality!
Many of life’s common courtesies would disappear if men and women were the same. Women would have to protect themselves and a lot of women would find themselves walking home alone instead of being escorted home by a man.
By far my favorite! Men wouldn’t be around to protect women from other men! Because men are doing such a great job right now! Women might have to protect themselves! Like they have to do now!
Oh, the humanity!
Imagine a world where women would be encouraged to be weak and small and submissive so more men could protect them from other men! Cause that works so well.
A man’s reflex to open a door for a woman would be replaced with the thought of her being comfortable enough to open the door for herself.
When men aren’t around in our house, it’s truly staggering. Nothing gets done. Me, Jenn and K stand and stare at the front door and weep and wail because we are unsure of how this complex mechanism works. We have to leave the groceries in the car because we’re unsure how to carry them upstairs all by ourselves! Putting together Ikea furniture can bring us to blows – I mean, tears – and we find ourselves calling our male friends at odd hours and asking them to come over and lift things for us.
If men and women are equal, society itself will collapse. I mean, women would be able to take care of themselves. It would be terrifying.
If both sexes were equal, love would become awkward as well. Marriage, or even deciding who should propose or pay for the ring, would be a different experience.
Why yes, it would. In fact, it’s quite different today. My mom proposed to my dad. It seemed to work very well for them. What world are you living in, sweety?
The days of a husband pulling out his wife’s chair would be over because men wouldn’t want to risk hearing a reminder about how women can do things for themselves.
Wow. That would be so scary. I can just see this guy burst into tears when his girlfriend is like, “Thanks for pulling out the chair, but I’ve got it.”
Serious breakdown time.
It seems that if men and women acted as equals, dating would be pretty boring. The chemistry created between two people is not defined by strong similarities, but by the differences and struggles for power that some feminists seek to destroy.
Struggles for power! Dating is about power! That’s what makes it so fun! Long-term partnerships are not based on mutual trust, respect, and friendship, they’re based on dominance and submission. I think this guy’s confusing bedroom play with dating. I’m going to send him some BDSM gear.
Where there are equal rights, there should be equal responsibilities. In a fair world, both men and women would have rifles in hand, ready challenge the enemy on the battlefield.
Yea, cause women have never fought with rifles on a battlefield.
Do they teach history in college?
Yet few feminists are yearning to fight wars or work blue collar jobs with long hours.
Last time I checked, men don’t want to do that either. Unless it’s a cool revolution. Then everyone signs up. And that includes women, you ignorant fucktard. Russian women had their own tank brigade. And for the record, Sarah, our construction manager, works 16 hour days. So fuck off.
Comparatively fewer women than men work grueling hours on the assembly line. Instead, many want to be key players in powerful companies or work for widely viewed media outlets where their voices can be heard.
This assumes that men *want* to work on assembly lines and *don’t* want to work in media where their voices are widely heard. And yet the media’s mostly run by men and I’ve never heard of a guy who loved his assembly line job.
A purely feminist society would dramatically change the family structure. In nature, females develop an inherent relationship with their young by bearing, nursing, and protecting them at a young age.
And drowning them. Oh wait, sorry, I mean, every woman is naturally happy and joyful at the thought of having and raising children all by herself without any support from friends, family, or her husband. It’s natural that way.
This is why some of our earliest childhood memories involve, not our father, but our mother.
No, it’s because your dad was gone all the time, dude. I’ve got just as many early memories of my dad as my mom. They worked the same hours.
Most fathers have a desire to provide for the wife and the children, and are often expected at the bare minimum to put food on the table.
Whereas women don’t care if there’s food on the table, and never help provide it.
Mothers nourish their children, and if these caring mothers were placed in the work force, we force traditional family standards to be the exact opposite of what they are today.
Dude, did he just say that mothers aren’t in workforce today?
It would be far from the truth to say that women are not entitled to have high-power positions in the work force or successful careers in the military. But in a world where feminism holds the reigns of society, we overhaul the design of the family unit, weaken the effect of feminine sexuality and introduce the possibility of having our daughters, sisters and mothers fight on the front lines and work grueling jobs.
Who designed this family unit? You know what some of the oldest forms of “family units” were? Polyandry and polygamy, and big groups of kin living and working together and helping raise all the kids together. If you want to argue “design” my poor chiklit, then you’d need to argue that one woman raising her children all by herself is the most *unnatural* of family units.
I love this bit, too about weakening “the effect of feminine sexuality.” Is he implying that he doesn’t find butch women sexy? I’m telling you, he’ll get that BDSM gear and change his mind.
And wake up, honey. Women already work grueling jobs. Some women work 12-16 hours days just like some men. As for women fighting on the front lines, again, they already are and have, usually either in guerilla units or cross-dressing as men. Women fight and die just like men. We also fight and die in childbirth. There’s lots of fighting and dying, and feminism probably won’t change any of that, unless it’s to get women better medical care so they aren’t dying in childbirth as much.
I’m not here to say what is right or wrong, but those who are fighting for equality need to keep in mind the changes that may occur if society adopted a true feminist perspective.
Which, being a woman and a feminist, he knows all about. Oh, wait…
For those who think a feminist society would be utopia, the perfect society is anything but perfect. If women choose to fight for equality, they should be careful what they wish for.
Gosh, I love this stuff. I bet he’s getting laid, like, all the time. Boys who think I’m weak and dependent and spend 8 hours every night getting ready for a date and don’t know how to shoot a rifle are soooo sexy.