“We Have Always Fought” Guest Post at A Dribble of Ink

“We Have Always Fought” Guest Post at A Dribble of Ink

May 20, 2013

I invite you to check out this guest post I did over at A Dribble of Ink on women fighters: I’m going to tell you a story about llamas. It will be like every other story you’ve ever heard about llamas: how they are covered in fine scales; how they eat their young if not raised properly; and how, at the end of their lives, they hurl themselves –...

Burt Wonderstone and the Pitfalls of “Ironic” Misogyny

Burt Wonderstone and the Pitfalls of “Ironic” Misogyny

Mar 16, 2013

NOTE: some spoilers, sexual assault triggers I went out last night to see the Incredible Burt Wonderstone, a cute little movie about a couple old-school buddy magicians dueling with Criss-Angel-stand-in Steve Gray (Jim Carrey) for fame and fortune. It was all right. I’ve lost my patience with people who hate everything. It had some funny moments, and everyone...

Boys with babies and women with knives: Rethinking gender assumptionist power structures

Boys with babies and women with knives: Rethinking gender assumptionist power structures

Sep 7, 2012

I have been meaning to write a response to this article by Ursula LeGuin for some time. Needless to say, when she says stuff like, “It’s amazing, given their different physiology and complement of hormones, how much alike men and women are in most ways,” I want to tear my hair out. This stuff comes off like somebody saying, “Hey, it’s remarkable that...

“You’re No Different Than That Thing in the Cellar”: Thoughts on “The Woman”

“You’re No Different Than That Thing in the Cellar”: Thoughts on “The Woman”

Jul 10, 2012

Note: this is a film that is about violence against women. Triggers ahoy. Long-time readers know that I get really pissed off with creative work that employs random violence against women as some kind of lazy shorthand. Creators do this for all types of reasons. You don’t have to work too hard at characterizing your bad guy if you just have him randomly rape...

Prometheus: White Dudes Seeding the Universe with their Magical Man-Sperm (Naturally)

Prometheus: White Dudes Seeding the Universe with their Magical Man-Sperm (Naturally)

Jun 11, 2012

NOTE: This post assumes you have already watched Prometheus, so is full of SPOILERS. In the world of Prometheus, we all came from white dudes, who went around seeding the universe with their magical, life-giving sperm. It was a fine feat those boys managed, creating whole worlds all on their own. I can’t help but wonder if it’s the secret dream of the...

What is this Fat Woman Doing on TV?

What is this Fat Woman Doing on TV?

Jun 1, 2012

When I rant about biases and stereotypes and authors’ blindspots, I get the impression that some people think I’m some perfect person without any biases. I’ve talked a lot about my awareness of my own misogyny and racism, but there’s other stuff that creeps up on you too, sometimes when you least expect it. Bias does not happen in a...

They’ll Come for You… Whether You Speak up or Not

They’ll Come for You… Whether You Speak up or Not

May 17, 2012

During times of great social upheaval, it can often seem safer to say nothing. You get noticed less. You piss off fewer people. You go around making sure the trains run on time. You make your dollars and go home and stuff them in the mattress and keep your head down and hope they don’t come for you. It’s a silly position, really, because they always come...

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